Surf Social Waves | How To Avoid Social Humiliation/Rejection
How much lower can I go than this? I lost my inhibition, thought of nothing else. Pretty much bootstrapped and tried making friends, getting to know more people, I tried getting invited to events, I tried standing up to bullies.
It All Started To Make Sense I started to see what I did wrong all my life. What others really thought of introverted men. I was getting more and more comfortable in social environments. The Discovery That Changed My Life And I came to a realization… “It doesn’t matter how hard you try…you can’t learn how to become socially savvy if you’re on the receiving end of social disapproval.” Unless you’re INVITED in by those groups you’re never going to figure out how to be successful like them…the puzzle pieces are never going to fit together.
I went home and thought back on my life. From the people I knew, to the routines that I was living to where I’d be ten years from now. I was sad, pissed-off, and angry That was the tipping point for me… This Is Not Where I Wana Be In My Life I decided I’d do ANYTHING to get out.
And then something changed. I met this girl… She was HOT. The type who had all the attention, guys chasing her, always out… Me I basically had no friends, no weekend life, none of that stuff.
And I FAILED over and over again but it didn’t matter to me. I just went home at night, recuperated, and went on about it next day. By Chance I Came Across... Sometime after I came across a guy nicknamed Em. I’ve never ran into anyone with an air of POWER, CONFIDENCE and SOCIAL PERSOANLITY that he had. He had women CHASING him all over the place and people from years ago still calling him back. And I have a feeling he somehow knew I had trouble fitting in. The gist of it is he invited me to hang out with his group and we became good friends. His circle turned out amazing and they helped me with some of my social challenges. It slowly started to click for me. Over time I found several other guys like Em who I consider some of the BEST IN THE WORLD, (It was NOT easy with these guys and it took YEARS finding them) and hung out with them.
We went on a date and for the most part it went pretty well. We sat down and I thought about when I’d see her next and suggested “Hey next time we can go to Symposium Café ” She looked at me square in the eye and said “There won’t be a next time.” ...